I’ve learned an interesting thing about myself and change. I’ve never feared change, in fact… I think it is something that should be embraced. I recently realized that much of those feelings are based in my ability to control change. I want to decide when change is coming, how it’s going to happen, and in the way in wish I like.
It’s easy to embrace change when you are in control, not so easy when you don’t get much (or any) say in the in the matter.
I knew that my 40th year would be a year of changes, I just assumed I would be making all of those decisions… on my schedule. I need to learn to embrace all sorts of change.