Make art with your children. I beg of you, do this. You will not regret it.
Maybe you are not artistically inclined, if so… there are options for you. There are those Sip & Paint style studios were you are directed on how to paint any number of subjects and styles. Some are even classes designed for 2 people, where you each paint half of the finished product. There are ceramic studios where you can paint precast ceramic pieces… work independently on a series that goes together or contribute equally to a larger piece.
Make art. Make it often. Display it proudly.
For several years, I’ve worked on art projects with my kids. Most are hung up in my house, but some have been given as gifts to family members. It brings me such joy to walk by these pieces that my kids have contributed to.
The picture at the top, that is part of this year’s project. That was a collaborative piece with my 10 year old daughter. Next week, my 14 year old and I begin our piece, seahorses. We are working on a series, that will be hung in my house. My 18 year old and I still need to figure out our piece.
If you were to come to my house, you would see a lot of art on the walls. Almost like living in a gallery. What you won’t know right away is that almost every single piece (minus 2 in the living room, and 2 in the bathroom) are made by members of our family. I love being surrounded by the creative styles of my family members (on both my side of the family, and my husband’s side).
But, I am sure you are wondering how to do so in a way in which it flows with your decorating style… and that my friends is simply answered by controlled creativity.
What do I mean by controlled creativity? I mean that we approach every project with a plan. Since the kids know it is for the house, they expect it is going to be coastal/beach/sealife related. So, we discuss what each one wants to paint before we even begin. I layout the color palette (pre-mixing if need be), give suggestions and guidance along the way. This isn’t just about creating the final product, but also about teaching them color theory to technique. We talk about how colors work together. We talk about the rules, and then sometimes we break them. It’s a lesson on patience, and a process.
I also allow them to complete a more personal project in the process. This can be anything they want, and it will end up in their bedroom or they can gift it away. It allows them to express their own sense of creativity beyond the project for the house.
I’m not just creating art, I’m creating memories. I’m also encouraging their creativity, confidence, and sense of style. I’m spending hours with my kids on a focused project, from concept to execution. I love every second of it… even when the paint spills… and she wipes her messy hand on her brand new shirt.
I also help them break the bonds of perfection. We embrace the oops… as Bob Ross would say, they are just happy little accidents.
Create with your kids, you will not regret it.