“I didn’t always know what I wanted to do, but I knew the kind of woman I wanted to be.” – Diane Von Furstenburg
It is very easy, in life, to be focused on what we want to do. We want to be successful. We want to be a doctor, lawyer, actress, writer, a wife, a mother, a friend, a mentor, etc. We want to be a lot of things, but when do we spend time thinking and dreaming about the kind of woman we want to be?
Scripture has some great women, women of worthy character that we can study. We can learn from Esther, we can submit to God like Mary, we can have wisdom like Deborah and we can even try to attain the Proverbs 31 Woman status. One thing I have learned, though, is that their stories are as unique to their life, as their fingerprints are to their body.
God had an individual plan for each of those women, and He shaped their lives and formed the pathways to get them to His purpose. No two stories, or journeys, were the same.
Instead of looking at the successes of other people, we need to seek God’s purpose in our life. We need to reach out to Him and ask for Him to move us, and guide us. While we wait for His response, we don’t need to sit around. Waiting for God is active, we have things to do “in the mean time”. We can work on our character as women of God. Honest. Dependable. Modest. Humble. Wise. Compassionate. Gracious. Merciful. Submissive. Prayerful. Students of the Word. Generous. Ethical. Loving. Positive. More directly, Matthew 5:1-12 reads:
Now when he saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to Him, and He began to teach them, saying: Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they shall be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the sons of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
If we want to begin working on our character, and defining what kind of woman we want to be…. we can start in His Word, pray for His guidance, and never give up trying to be better than we were the day before.
Lord, I pray that you help me to become the woman you created me to be. Walk with me along the way, holding my hand, catching me when I stumble and setting me back on the straight path. Help me to refine myself to be the best example of having Christ in my life, as possible. Amen.